Living in the NOW with Nini Amerlise

Living in the NOW with Nini Amerlise

Model, actress, a motivational speaker and a founder, Nini Amerlise is an epitome of inspiration. Never a dull moment, or straying away from the path of success, Amerlise finds motivation in everything to be a role model and bring a positive change.
How does someone who is always on the go make of this sudden stillness of life? FORWARD finds out while she talks about how she is appreciating the ‘NOW’ and living in the moment.

  • On current physical distancing state of mind:

My physical distancing has been a blessing in disguise. Yes, I may miss going outdoors and connecting with humanity in a physical aspect, but it has allowed me to push the reset button on my life. I have recalibrated my way of thinking and focus on the things I am grateful for in life. For the first time, I have been able to reconnect with my family on levels that I use to experience only in my childhood years. The chaotic life of being an adult can be distracting because of the responsibilities that tear us away from the core element of our existence–the ability to freely connect with love without the setbacks of the material world.
I can reflect on the essential things in life and find peace and connection with myself, God and the nature around us.

  • Being a woman, Model, CEO, inspiration and friend while in quarantine:

It means still being able to avail myself as a helping hand and listening ear to those who may need me. The very love we give will come back in many ways without expectations of its return. It’s a selfless act and an intentional responsibility we all should aim to fulfill. It brings us closer together and united, which is essential, especially in these times, as many may feel alone and neglected.

  • On current physical distancing state of mind:

My physical distancing has been a blessing in disguise. Yes, I may miss going outdoors and connecting with humanity in a physical aspect, but it has allowed me to push the reset button on my life. I have recalibrated my way of thinking and focus on the things I am grateful for in life. For the first time, I have been able to reconnect with my family on levels that I use to experience only in my childhood years. The chaotic life of being an adult can be distracting because of the responsibilities that tear us away from the core element of our existence–the ability to freely connect with love without the setbacks of the material world.
I can reflect on the essential things in life and find peace and connection with myself, God and the nature around us.

  • Being a woman, Model, CEO, inspiration and friend while in quarantine:

It means still being able to avail myself as a helping hand and listening ear to those who may need me. The very love we give will come back in many ways without expectations of its return. It’s a selfless act and an intentional responsibility we all should aim to fulfill. It brings us closer together and united, which is essential, especially in these times, as many may feel alone and neglected.

  • Value and importance of a woman reinforced:

 Women are a natural caregiver, and we love to connect and make sure the household is running efficiently. I enjoy cooking and seeing my family members fed and happy; I also focus on the mental health and stability of those around me, which I find is an embedded inclination as a woman. We are like the “glue” that holds things together for the family, bringing unresolved situations to an established resolution as we don’t fail to give instruction or advice, we are ultimately a major key factor for family development. Also, I notice sacrificing personal plans to engage is essential as a woman– my younger brother enjoys playing video games with me. At the same time, my sisters and mom love having a simple chat or watching movies together. These initiatives show simple acts of love as a woman by being available and connected, which will be valued long term.

  • Character building:

Character development– I have been able to identify and work my weakness previously overshadowed while consumed by the face-paced life. Also, I have grown to be more patient.

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  • The positive impact of the pandemic:
The coronavirus’s incidence has increased the value of gratitude, self-care, and to love and respect each other truly. Tomorrow is not promised, so we should live and appreciate every moment we have!
  • Staying creative:
I am always writing down visions and plans. Through my online podcast, I connect every day with people and industry professionals. I sing, write songs, and come up with new dance routines, freestyle, draw or paint. Also, I am continuously planning projects for my TV show. For me, there is truly never a dull moment, and it is beautiful.

  • Staying positive and motivated:
I keep myself connected to impactful mentors in my life. Being around those who you aspire to be like, keeps our eye on the target and not straying away from the path of success and blessings. I stay motivated by continually writing down new visions and ideas.

  • Important to stay social:
There are moments where I take a break from socializing. However, the idle mind can be the devil’s playground, which can lead to isolation, fear, rejection and all sorts of negativity, so it’s crucial to congregate and stay together, be inspired and encouraged. I intentionally balance out in my schedule to make calls and connect and then make a downtime, so I don’t get overwhelmed.

  • The challenge:
My biggest challenge would be to have to stay motivated, as it has to be intentional always. As humans, we naturally incline to want what everyone else is doing and settle for mediocrity. Still, I refuse it daily, as I know destiny will never be achieved with that mindset. I am a dream chaser, and I am a winner, I will attain all my goals, and refuse to give up on greatness. Let’s go!

  • Learning has not changed:
My need to research and read has not changed–our minds always need positive, influential information for proper health, cognitive ability and development.

  • The first thing to do after this quarantine:
TRAVEL! My inner travel girl is crying out to explore and connect!